There’s no way around it – parenting is a learn-as-you-go kind of thing. Unfortunately along the way we make plenty of mistakes (or at least I did). If I could travel 20 years back in time there are a number of things I would tell myself as a new parent; things that would spare me and my family a lot of heartache. But since I can’t do that I’ll do the next best thing – I’ll tell them to you. Whether you have 10 children or your first one is on the way, this talk is for you.