Children are always probing to discover the true quality of our love for them. We have to be careful that our responses to their wants and needs (whether vocal or not) don't result in a lack of trust that will come back to haunt us later. That said, a premature reward or correction (or 'yes' or 'no') might do more harm than good. Sometimes we need to take a step back and get a firm grip on what we're really dealing with before we give a response. This talk will help you to take a close look at the health of your relationship with your children and how, when and why to give an appropriate response to their needs and wants.